Ninety-Five and Counting

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Our family is blessed to still have our mom, who turned ninety-five years old this month.  Mom is still beautiful, witty, smart, reads several books a week, and knows her iPad well.  We gathered recently in California for her birthday.  This year, she wanted a smaller party compared to some in the past.  My brother grilled ribs and several of us made the side dishes.  Mom specifically requested corn-on-the-cob (she’s originally a Midwest girl) and a peach cobbler.  I made the cobbler but turns out I should have made a couple more.  It went faster than I thought it would, plus mom did not have the leftovers she was hoping for.  There was also a beautiful lemon mousse cake, but we did not want to put 95 candles and ruin the cake, so my girls came up with the idea to buy a ready-made angel food cake just for the purpose of the candles.  Well… little did we know that the lit cake would cause the smoke alarm to go off and almost singe my brother Ken’s hair.  However, it didn’t seem to faze our fearless mom at all.  Ken carried the cake in, had to hold it at arm’s length, set it down in front of mom and she proceeded to blow out all the candles as the smoke alarm blasted.

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The cake took a beating and got tossed.  We had no idea it would cause such a flame.

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We had such a great time with lots of good food, happy conversations, opening gifts, and especially enjoying all of mom’s stories.  We asked her to tell us stories or memories from every decade of her full and wonderful life, sometimes challenging, but she always was a tower of strength for everyone.  Mom is our rock.

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The day before the birthday party, we decided to add another party but this one was to be a surprise.  Our daughter Kara is expecting her first baby and it seemed a good time to have a surprise baby shower since all the family was there. Daughter Kristina kept Kara busy until she knew we were ready for them to show up. Kara was definitely surprised and couldn’t believe we put it all together at the last minute and hid all the food.

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It was a weekend we will never forget, with several generations and another one on the way.  Here was mom’s first peek at her great-grandchild.

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We don’t know if it’s a boy or girl because Kara and her husband want it to be a surprise.  All we know for sure is, baby has Kara’s little button nose!

The weekend was just the beginning of what will be coming up in the new year-  a new baby and a 96th birthday party.  And maybe not a cake that could burn down the house.  Maybe just another couple of peach cobblers.

14 Responses to Ninety-Five and Counting

  1. Emma Stewart August 28, 2016 at 5:30 pm #

    Happy Birthday to your mom and congratulations to all on the new little addition to the family!

    • Debbie August 28, 2016 at 5:48 pm #

      Thanks, Emma! Both bring great excitement!

  2. Lisa keys August 28, 2016 at 6:11 pm #

    Two wonderful events with the most lovely ladies I know

    • Debbie August 28, 2016 at 6:20 pm #

      Thanks, Lisa. We would have loved to have you there!

  3. Barb Spigner August 28, 2016 at 7:04 pm #

    What a great couple of days for everyone !

    • Debbie August 28, 2016 at 9:09 pm #

      Thanks, Barb. It was the best!

  4. Andreann August 28, 2016 at 11:53 pm #

    Happy Birthday to your mom and thank you for sharing that wonderful day with all of us.

    • Debbie August 29, 2016 at 8:58 am #

      Thanks, Andreann! I can’t tell you how often I think of you and your mom. I hope she is doing well.

  5. Ellen (EJ) August 29, 2016 at 1:39 pm #

    It was fun, wasn’t it. So glad for our family.

  6. Dana August 29, 2016 at 5:28 pm #

    Amazing!!!! <3 What wonderful memories! Congratulations to all on birthdays and birthdays-to-be.

  7. Kim Marsden August 30, 2016 at 2:17 pm #

    Well, you always say that your mom is quite a gal, and she proved it once again on her 95 Birthday with that flaming cake and a day of memorable stories. What a delightful person to celebrate! And what a special time to celebrate Kara’s baby with everyone together. The food all looked so delicious! You know how to celebrate! Thanks for sharing and congratulations to your amazing mother and darling daughter!

    • Debbie August 30, 2016 at 3:53 pm #

      Thanks, Kim! One of these days I hope you can meet everyone at one of our gatherings. We are trying to get one to happen in Seattle, where you could also meet a lot of the Finns!

      • Kim Marsden August 31, 2016 at 6:41 am #

        That would be delightful! Remember I offered to help! You are welcome to have it at my home and/or the winery across the street.

        • Debbie August 31, 2016 at 7:58 am #

          Yes, I love that idea!

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